Warmth

I've been writing about the change in my sex life, and it hasn't swung back to wild animal passion (yet). It's 'a lull', but really it's a milestone. Difficult to explain, but I feel as close to S as ever. Our relationship was defined by sex, and now it's not. But I'm really looking forward to spring, when we come out of hibernation!

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On a different note, this is the first Valentine's Day in memory that I am completely relaxed about the event. I've gotten small gifts and chocolate for those closest to me, and I feel just fine about the day. It's not a big deal, but a time to share affection with my friends, family, and S.